Research
Types of Attachment
Secure attachment:
Children who can depend on their caregivers show distress when separated and joy when reunited. Although the child may be upset, they feel assured that the caregiver will return. When frightened, securely attached children are comfortable seeking reassurance from caregivers.
Ambivalent - insecure attachment:
These children become very distressed when a parent leaves. Ambivalent attachment style is considered uncommon, affecting an estimated 7–15% of U.S. children. As a result of poor parental availability, these children cannot depend on their primary caregiver to be there when they need them.
Avoidant - insecure attachment:
Children with an avoidant attachment tend to avoid parents or caregivers, showing no preference between a caregiver and a complete stranger. This attachment style might be a result of abusive or neglectful caregivers. Children who are punished for relying on a caregiver will learn to avoid seeking help in the future.
Disorganized – insecure attachment:
These children display a confusing mix of behavior, seeming disoriented, dazed, or confused. They may avoid or resist the parent. Lack of a clear attachment pattern is likely linked to inconsistent caregiver behavior. In such cases, parents may serve as both a source of comfort and fear, leading to disorganized behavior.
How does the attachment form?
It was through Rudolph Schaffer and Peggy Emerson’s research that the stages of attachment were discovered. Both researchers developed a longitudinal study in which they analyzed the number of attachments formed by 60 infants. During the first year of the infants’ lives, they were observed every four weeks, and then once every 18 months. Therefore, based on their observations, Schaffer and Emerson discovered four stages of attachment:
1. Pre-Attachment Stage
From birth to 3 months, infants do not show any particular attachment to a specific caregiver. The infant's signals, such as crying and fussing, naturally attract the attention of the caregiver and the baby's positive responses encourage the caregiver to remain close.
2. Indiscriminate Attachment
Between 6 weeks of age to 7 months, infants begin to show preferences for primary and secondary caregivers. Infants develop trust that the caregiver will respond to their needs. While they still accept care from others, infants start distinguishing between familiar and unfamiliar people, responding more positively to the primary caregiver.
3. Discriminate Attachment
At this point, from about 7 to 11 months of age, infants show a strong attachment and preference for one specific individual. They will protest when separated from the primary attachment figure (separation anxiety), and begin to display anxiety around strangers (stranger anxiety).
4. Multiple Attachments
After approximately 9 months of age, children begin to form strong emotional bonds with other caregivers beyond the primary attachment figure. This often includes the father, older siblings, and grandparents.
What happens later?
Several research has shown that lacking to form secure attachments during infancy has a long-lasting negative effect on the child’s behaviors in later childhood and even throughout life. For instance, disorders such as oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), conduct disorder (CD), and post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) are often diagnosed in children who frequently display attachment problems. These attachment issues can possibly be due to neglect, abuse, or trauma. Some clinicians have suggested that adoption of children beyond age 6 is considered a risk factor for the development of attachment problems.
Not all attachment styles which are seen in infancy are similarly displayed in adulthood. However, early attachments dictate the path for later relationships, and has a very significant impact on self-esteem and self-reliance. Studies have indicated that those with a secure attachment tend to have positive self-esteem, strong romantic relationships, and successful social relationships. In addition, these children perform better in school and are less exposed to depression and anxiety. All 3 insecure attachments play as risk factors to the development of mood disorders and anxiety disorders.
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